Hey there, I want to talk to you about marriage. Yeah, I know everyone has their own perspective on how to look at a marriage. Well I am going to tell you MY view on how I look at MY marriage. Know that we are not perfect, we have our arguments and our joyful days. Are you ready? I am want to let you see a marriage through my eyes.
Love is a choice
Our love isn’t a force, we chose to love each other. It takes two. We go out our ways to fill each others needs. There should be no fear in love. When we where in high school my husband now, went out of his way just to bring me lunch. Know that we did not go the same school. Get this our schools were revels to each other! We took risk to fall in love with each other.
Goals in relationship
I was never that little girl who dreamed a big castle wedding. Although, I do have a dream home and it is not cheap. My son and husband right there with me living the reality of my dream home. It wont be perfect with out my family right there by my side. As a married couple all I want is to be married to my husband for a life time, life time of happiness and for us to become one. Putting God first in our marriage.
Five love languages
I have learned in our marriage the words “I love you” can never be over said.
- Touch – Affection
- Act of service – Help me
- Gifts – Show me you know me
- Quality time – Your undivided attention
- Words of affirmation – Sincerely appreciated
Going on dates have helped us. We talk and get to know each other all over again. We discus on our needs and prevent future arguments.
8 Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.